AI·
AI Pairing: Notes to Self
My ever-evolving tips for pairing with AI - not rules, just habits I keep forgetting

This is a living document. Not "best practices" - just things I keep re-learning. The landscape changes weekly.
The Mindset Shifts
- You're the architect, AI is the builder - I still catch myself letting AI drive when I should be steering
- Better context = better output - Every time I think "that's obvious", I'm wrong. Say it anyway.
- Talk like you're pairing with a senior dev who just joined - They're smart but don't know your codebase
- Use Claude.md, craft clean structure and conventions and it'll pick them up fast
- Plan Mode for your problems, Edit Mode for Claude's
Habits I Keep Forgetting
- Use voice/dictation more - typing less context because lazy
- Screenshot the error, don't describe it
- Create an issue when distracted by improvement ideas - don't derail current task
ctrl+zto terminal,fgto resume - way better than!for throwaway commands- rewind!
What's Working Right Now
- Plan mode before any non-trivial change
- easier to course-correct early than after tons of code is generated
- Subagents for everything
- Keith pushed me to use them for exploration, but now I use them for everything - main agent acts as orchestrator
- I've had a lot of luck with this - larger tasks can run autonomously for a long time
- Web search to load current docs into context
- Read every line of changes before committing - easy when new, gets sloppy fast
- AI adds the worst type of errors - small, subtle, hard to catch ones
bunx ccstatusline@latestfor Claude Code status line - shows token usage, costs, model in terminal
What I'm Experimenting With
- More aggressive use of CLAUDE.md for project conventions
- Custom slash commands for repeated workflows
- Letting AI write the first draft of issues/PRs
Lessons Learned the Hard Way
- Don't trust AI-generated paths without verification
- If stuck in a loop, start fresh context rather than fighting
- Once you get "You're absolutely right" from AI, you're probably off-track - start a new session
Resources I Keep Coming Back To
- Building Custom Skills for Anthropic Agents – Barry Zhang & Mahesh Murag - pushed me to go all-in on skills for chatbots and agents
Last updated: 2025-12-20